Cherishing every bit of life

A wild vacation

2010-01-08T16:32:00.010+03:00

The only thing I wanted to do during this vacation was to take as much rest as possible.To some extent I could fulfill my desire. Woke up late in the mornings , slept in afternoons,wtached Tv shows and indulged in gossips. I look forward to a day on which I can overcome these weaknesses.

I am reading a book by Biboothi Booshan badhopadhyaya, Aranyak. I heard Muthukad talking about it in a TV show. So took a Malayalam translation of the Bengali novel. The theme of the novel attracted me. It inspires me to write about some of the beautiful places in my mind which includes my home land. It's wild and beautiful and I can relate some of the things in the novel and this place. Who can care how much land our family members together owns here, but sure I have a rough calculation. My father has paddy fields and coconut tree farms which includes a variety of trees and plants and which is also home to a wide variety of animals.

By year end I plan to have good amount of greenery in and around our compound.I like to do some good things for nature. I guess, this picture from Banglore will not be out of place here. A lorry full of plastic covers. They will get recycled.

As planned we went to Bungalooru and came back. We expected the climate to be cold, but it wasn't. The wheather was little hot after 10am. There most people preferred bikes to cars to go to work, due to slow traffic during peak times. The prices of things seemed much inflated. The supermarkets seemed true traps for consumers. They have such a lot of commodities.

8 years ago I was working in this city. In between I had halted here a few times also. Every time I pass through this city, I try to have a look at my old working place and place where I stayed as a paying guest. This time I didn't see both.

Banglore became very cold soon after we left her. The climate was good in Kerala, not too hot or too cold. This time I could enjoy the greenery. Those who stay here won't understand the depth of my statement. You ask anyone who has just landed after a long stay abroad, they will readily agree with me.

Before going for vacation I had planned to watch 3 movies. But only Pazzashi Raja was running in theaters. I bought and brought some CDs. Kanakanmani begins so well that we won't expect it to take such a bad turn and ending. Kameny, ajab prem ki gazab kahani , Bhagya devatha are in line here. One by one I have to watch.

I didn't like the last movie watched on big screen, that is Big Father. Before that I had watched Pazhassi Raja. For the first time, consciously heard the sound effects because it is the Oscar winner behind it. The marching sound was so different from my concept, which was set by other old movies.Rasool Pookutty is setting the standards now. The biggest budget movie in Malayalam is hard to believe. On top of that I read while trying to portray Pazhassi as a hero, they purposely avoided some incidents which hints to his negative character. But, truly it was a visual extravagenza. .

On weddings Malayalees spend extravagently. I could attend a grand marriage in Lulu center. The dowry was 10kg gold and a scoda car. The center stage had two screens on both sides. Two cameras were revolving in two cranes.It had a hall that can seat 1000 people at a time.

Now hear the story of another girl's marriage. This girl's would be husband gifted her a dress worth 1 lakh for engagement. She didn't like it. So for marriage 4 people flew to Banglooru and stayed in a hotel, slected a dress, gave it for alteration and made arragements to recieve the dress by parcel and flew back.

In Al Khor,the climate is cold.First day I went to work in a new dress which was flimsy. I shivered to my bones by afternoon. I got a mild fever in the evening. Next day onwards, started wearing warm clothes.

Books, CDs,seeds of vegetables and costly dresses are some of the worldly pleasures I aquired. After hearing the story of the marriage dress my costly dress seem very cheap.

Now all these things are for new year. The year gone, was not bad. It was in this year I became a proud owner of a Nissan Tida.It is gearless making the driving tension free. Why do we have vehicles with gears? Recession did affect us in some way. May be the next year will bring more hope for me and you. Wish you all a HAPPY NEW YEAR.

Showbiz

2009-12-10T20:25:00.004+03:00

Good evening ladies and gentlemen and also all the kids who came here,

This program will begin with a prayer. Let us seek the blessings of all mighty first. (I need it a lot)
God’s love is so wonderful, Oh wonderful love.

I have planned a welcome speech, rhyme time, a story and finally vote of thanks. Afterwards there will be a comment writing competition. The winners will have a chance to experience the beauty of my place with free food and accommodation. So you get ready for my show.

Next is welcome speech by blog owner.

I welcome you all from Perinjanam. I am celebrating one month vacation along with my family here. We flew, I don’t know for how many nautical miles, but finally landed safely in Cochin on 1st December. Hope to stay here for one month, just remember. Its winter holidays for school goers in Qatar.
I need your support to make this a grand success. Do invite me to your homes or any public places where we can be together. As you know some great days are coinciding with our holidays like, Christmas and New Year. Let us make the most of it. Once again I give you a warm welcome.

I declare this program officially inaugurated. My first trip will be to Bangalore. We will be there on the 12th for the next 3 days.

Each person is a hero. I will try to involve as many persons as possible by me in this program. If this is going to be a success it’s only due to you.

Next enjoy rhyme time.

I am a little blogger
Trying to be stronger
Bare with me my mistakes
Sorry for the time it takes.

Next we will have our last item, that is story telling.

Time is flying. Actually I feel I wrote the last post last year, but truly I couldn’t extract a minute in between for another post.
I had an opportunity to prepare some children for annual day cum children’s day program. It was wonderful working with such young minds. They taught me as much if not much more than what I have taught them. The talent explosion required high energy. It was very exciting though my system was overloaded. Felt a bit enervated afterwards. On stage we had rhymes, dances, skits, speeches and stories. First time in life I compeered an event. As you can see I am infected by a hangover.I leave the job of finding the moral of the story to you.

Vote of thanks

This program (vacation) wouldn’t have been a reality without the vision of my beloved husband. I would like to thank him first. Thanks to everyone who visited my blog and spent some time to comment. You will be given a place in my heart. Please make the competition attractive by your active participation.
Excellent, very good, very nice, really good, amazing, super, fantastic, wonderful, marvelous
Use these key words to enhance your chances of winning. Never mind if it feels like an overdose. Anyway I want everyone who visits my page to be a winner. Thank you.

Onam Celebrations

2009-09-01T07:12:00.006+03:00

The biggest festival came knocking at my door and I was least ready to give it a warm welcome. I did offer a small feast to capture the spirit of the festival. The scene had 3 friends extra in a small peaceful Malayalee family.

Years back I used to get up early , very early during these days. We used to enjoy collecting flowers and arranging it infront of the house. Nature's call was irresistable because she was another miss universe with lovely green dress adorned with multicolour flowers. We used to trot in all otherwise fearful paths to collect flowers or just for the shear joy of freedom.

How I wished to be at home for Onam!!!!!

Vishu kani

2009-08-10T19:48:00.003+03:00

I have one more picture for today. It is this year's Vishukani. I had that driving test on my priority list that day. A bunch of Kanikonna would have made it fabulous.

Onam is nearing and before that I had to blog the last celebrated festival. We had a semiya payasam that day.

We encourage an emerging artist, that's why the scribblings are so evident in the picture. He has scribbled everywhere in the house.

Manichithra Thazhu

2009-08-10T19:21:00.004+03:00

This is a show piece from a shop in my place, Nadavaramba. It is famous for good quality bronze items. A few shops sell both ready made and custom made items. This lock costs around 15,000 Rs. and the length is between 60 to 75 cm. You will have to place your orders two or three months in advance for custom made items.

In other locks the fish is replaced by a tortoise or snake and the ring is placed on an elephant's head.

Updates

2009-08-10T18:44:00.002+03:00

In Khor this is that time of the year when you are out doors you find dates and your mouth feels a need to date dates. A bunch of dates hanging from a palm tree is both eye catchy and mouth watering. My love for them dates back to time immemorial. I have disliked the dried dates since I started tasting fresh ripe ones. In childhood dried dates were the only choice available. Now imported fresh dates are not uncommon in Kerala. Dates become ripe during the peak summer season. To my taste buds both red and yellow dates are alike. They are juicy crispy and slightly sweet but, they leave a bit of bitterness at the end. Still on the whole they are tantalizing.

Golden dates nestled on a bed of burgundy dates

An Amateur Blogger

2009-07-01T10:27:00.002+03:00

I started using blogger since December 2007. In spite of my best try I couldn't like blogging in the first month. Then suddenly one day I could produce an amateur content that really didn't capture any one's mind or intellect, but had high regard from its producer.

I was looking through my blogger dashboard blogger buzz recently. Then noted that the blogger will turn 10 years old in August and that made me write this post. First time when I heard the word blog I convinced the person who informed me about it that such a word does not exist. That was way back in 2003. Now I feel so ashamed to understand how ignorant I was during those times.

When I took the first dive I didn't know it was going to last this long. Since then I had to pass through certain tough phases. Because while doing this exercise I sometimes forget to come to the surface to breath.Often I started having burned food and utensils, discontented folks, a silly smile on my face even while having serious discussions at home and the list can go very very long. I had mentioned this in a previous post.

I had heard the story of successful writers and professionals perched on blogger. My story is different. I confine here my thoughts which were going zig zag in all dimensions. My thoughts are having a wider reach now. Anyone can take to blogging. It's very easy with blogger, who had always tried to integrate the best software features with an eye to be on top always. I have not fully utilized the scope of blogging. When I look around I understand, blogging is fading. Blogs with regular entries are decreasing. People are turning to more easy tweeting and face book keeping.It's easy for veterans to keep blogosphere thriving. But virtuosos with good content and time can also do their bit.

I wish blogger a very happy birthday and many many happy returns of the day in advance. I hope to see it to go on forever.

Star fame

2009-06-27T10:11:00.008+03:00

Two stars have faded recently. Both have one thing in common. That is they both had converted to Islam. One is the famous writer Kamala Surayya and the other is the king of pop or the most famous human, Micheal Jackson. The stars and the planets might have took such positions to bring about this coincidence.

As I blog this I heard the departure of the famous Malayalam screen play writer and director Lohithadas. I had hearted some of his famous movies like Boothakannadi, Valsalyam, Amaram, Kireedam, Thaniyavarthanam etc. There was always something note worthy in his movies.

I have admired the three persons, the better side of them actually. All of them had the power to influence people and had matured to be among the best in their fields. In their own ways they had tried to support the good and attack the bad in the world.

According to horoscope science those who die in Utharayana are supposed to get elevated that is, gain a better birth or unite with the God. When humanity sees the same talents again, or may be its better form but associated with different names, this blog can serve as a reference material for further study.

It's summer here

2009-06-16T17:23:00.003+03:00

It's that time of the year again. What's so special about this summer, do you wonder? I got a blister, right under my wrist watch. I would have spend some 2 minutes in the hot sun at noon that day. But that was enough to heat the metal parts of the watch and cause a blister on this soft person. In the start of the summer itself the temparatures have gone beyond last year's peak.

I really would like to do something to combat the climate changes. This year on WED I had taken a pledge to keep the environment clean. It has a wider meaning than merely using the dust bin. Plant trees, preserve the environment, use less oil and gas products etc.

See, my spare times will be devoted for this cause from now onwards. So do not wonder when you don't see me here for long.

Steering Ahead

2009-05-13T07:21:00.004+03:00

I will tell you the story of my driving licenses. I enrolled for a 25 day driving course here recently. After the 22nd class there was a test for ladies and my teacher asked me to give it.

The first test was on April 1st. I made plans to entertain people by the story of me getting license. I passed signal test and was send to take an L on a hill. I was sitting in the car and could feel my heart pounding violently. When my turn came my hands were cold and frosty, I steered the car to the slope. Stopped it on the way and continued to climb. Then I descended. So far things were very good. After that I steadied the car and waited for it to go in the reverse direction. Instead of going back it went forward. Soon a man came and told me to relax and park the car immediately. April fool! I would have passed if I didn’t forget to change the first gear to reverse gear when I was at the top of the hill.

I am late for work and everyone knew the reason. To their “What happened?” question I replied in a self consoling manner.

On the next test I was relaxed. My master had given two more classes. It was on 14th of April. I hope to get the license as a Vishu Ki Neetam from God. I take the car and my car goes off on the hill and I get a mood off. Still I was sent for the parking test, which means I clear the hill test. I get a sudden mood lift and I am off to the box for parking. I expected to pass it too and waited till they declared the results. I was unlucky. A back tyre had touched the formidable lines.

I am late for work again. Everyone asked “What happened?” I said, “What can happen? I have to give one more test.”

On the third test I was very relaxed. At least I am passing a test per test, first signal test then hill test like that. I hope to pass the 4 mandatory tests one by one. The teacher had given a last class. Parking went well. The road test was also easy but I made a mistake. I didn’t wear the seat belt before taking the car.

After the test I was hopeless and didn’t wait to hear the results. I was worried about taking extra classes for the next test which will be the ultimate test. If ever I fail on the fourth attempt to get the license I have to go for training again and give all the four tests. It means more investment and more time.

In the afternoon I get to hear I passed the test. In the evening I had the license in my hand. I had to fight the urge to run into people and declare this fact. My son was ill and I had taken that as an excuse for late coming at work.

I got my first driving license when I was 21 from India. I did it during a two month vacation period during the college days. Acquiring it seemed very natural. On the test day I took a perfect H and the road test seemed very simple. I really was boastful of this. It made my road troublesome this time.

In between my 29th birthday passed on April 21st. I deduct that the learning capabilities and concentrating power of females with similar background are at their peak in the early twenties and gradually diminishes and become worse at late twenties.

I am practicing on my brother’s car now. I too ascertain with many others, learning at any age is a wonderful experience. You are mentally revived by the process. I had a lot of fun while learning to drive in Qatar. I just pray to Almighty to free this country from traffic jams due to me.

Some Happenings

2009-03-28T16:41:00.004+03:00

Just a few minutes ago I was wasting some key strokes to sign in here because it’s been the least visited page for a long time.

Mother's day went by and I and my mother remained forgotten that day. My son doesn’t know what it is. He reminds me frequently how he loves me by saying," I love you Mom". This is something I have not done consciously. But, in many ways I let her know how much she means to me. We can connect only through phone now and I try to be as close as possible. I send her sarees and some beauty creams, which she wants me to stop. I used to be a bad critic when it comes to her cooking. But, nowadays whenever I go home I fill my stomach with whatever she makes and completely forget the rules of dieting. For all mothers the love we give back is going to be only a drop in an ocean. I am not into celebrating mother’s day usually.

This week a woman who knew only Arabic appeared in front of our gate and poured contends of a basket in our compound and asked us to take it. She was our neighbor’s maid and what she brought were some tomatoes and some herbs including putheena and malliyila. The unprecedented act left us all awe struck and we even forgot to say Shukran (thanks).The souring and plunging temperatures had taken away the idea of agriculture from me. But this act has triggered the farmer in me. I am starting by throwing the rotten tomatoes in the backyard where it least affects the inmates and it will be safe from our interventions. The rains we are having now, I hope will bring some prosperity.

Latest News

2009-02-25T18:26:00.002+03:00

At last the people in Qatar are having the living room in hand. They are now able to watch TV from mobile. The technological leap happened last week. I was waiting for this ever since acquiring a 3G mobile. Checked it out on the day it happened. The rates seem fine for the beginning, but definitely the service providers can shine by offering it at a lower price later.

The blog spots I follow were not getting any updates and I guess the cause to be the boggling Oscars. I tried downloading ‘Slumdog millionaire’ as early as it was possible by me. After tasting failures for two or three attempts we got it finally, but yet to watch.

A picture of a Turkish Airline in 3 pieces scarred my mind. It happened when it crash landed in Amstardam today. My prayers go out to the people who were in the plane.

Tag post again

2009-02-15T18:24:00.003+03:00

Here are the instructions:
USING ONLY ONE WORD! Copy and change the answers to suit you and pass it on. It’s really hard to only use one word answers.

1. Where is your cell phone?
Bag.
(Yes, it’s there. Just checked)
2. Your significant other?
Brightens (I should be looking for a more suitable .............word)
3. Your hair?
Wavy
4. Your mother?
Caring

5. Your father?
Loving
6. Your favorite thing?
Soul
7. Your dream last night?
Scary
8. Your favorite drink?
Water
9. Your dream/goal?
goal
10. What room you are in?
Drawing
11. Your hobby?
Numerous (I should make a schedule for all)
12. Your fear?
Mistakes
13. Where do you want to be in 6 years?
Earth
14. Where were you last night?
Here
15. Muffins?
Like (after a day of fast)
16. Wish list item?
Numerous (I should plan to acquire them immediately)
17. Where you grew up?
Kerala
18. Last thing you did?
Sleep
19. What are you wearing?
Pyjama
20. Your TV?
Bravia
21. Your pets?
None
22. Friends?
Forever
23. Your life?
Gifted
24. Your mood?
Calm
25. Missing some one?
Maid
26. Car?
Husband’s

27. Something you’re not wearing?
Anklets
28. Favorite store?
SFC
29. Your summer?
Hottest
30. Your favorite color?
None

31. When is the last time you laughed?
Morning (I should do something to increase the frequency)
32. Last time you cried?
Forgot

33. Three people who email me?
Retiredmillionaire, Rinchen, princy
34. Three of my favorite foods?
Plada, Uzhunnuvada and Veg Burger (If you have plans to gift consider this)
35. Three places I would rather be right now?
Doha, Irinjalakkuda or Kodungallur

Okay, I tag Priya and anyone else who has time to answer all these questions. I have tried to stick to the ONE WORD criteria wherever possible. What you see in brackets are what I learned and some benefits I may get by doing this tag.

A garden city

2009-02-12T18:37:00.003+03:00

Old Mud House

This is the colour that comes to my mind when I hear about deserts.I thought this is the time to change my mind set. Al Khor is known as the garden city. It is daily going through a beautification process. I ventured out on a friday to capture it's beauty. Here's some for you. If you miss the beauty blame the photography.

Spring

Al Khor

Palm tree.

Park near girls school

Artificial well

Garden city

Solid Metal Flower Basket

It Gives Dates

Beautified city

Weather Analysis

2009-01-31T16:55:00.006+03:00

My screen hours have reduced very much. I don't catch up any mini screen shows or the ones in silver screen. I am too lazy to wait to watch the laptop screen wake. I have less addiction for mobile screens. In short, I see a screen monitoring system silently working in me. I hold the climate responsible.

The couch is more inviting than any other place be it comfy indoors or chilly outdoors. Some days I get up to see heavy fog outside. By the time I go out it will be gone leaving the ground wet. Most of the days I am taking long afternoon naps.

There are flowers everywhere. I don't know whether the climate is behind this. If it is so it is spring here. I hope to get a beautiful pic soon on lens to put here.

This is an agreeable climate for those from cold and frosty regions. I like the summer better. There is less risk for diseases then. At home I like the rainy season. More rain means less chance of water scarcity for some of us, reduces the chance for power cuts and brings prosperity to farmers.

Back in Al Khor

2009-01-24T12:39:00.003+03:00

I am back in Al Khor. I miss my land and people dearly. Khor seems to be a strange place now.

The recession is slowly stepping here as well. Some find it good because they can now relax a bit at work. Some are taking precautions by cutting down cost of living and some by sending families back. We keep waiting till it brings a direct affect.

At home we met more life insurance agents than friends and relatives. All the schemes seem lucrative, but we had enough schemes and didn’t have any intention to join. My first and last policy was taken during a recession period. That time software industry was facing recession and I was working with Siemens in Banglore. In two months I and our group had to end the job, but before that an LIC agent could sign me in for a scheme.

Recession or no recession we find the agents a nuisance. The lies we say to escape their clasps don’t tire them. They are ever ready to campaign thus deliberately making us masters of the art of lying profusely.

Home Coming

2008-12-31T18:28:00.004+03:00

We came along with Darjeeling mail to Sealdah. In Kolkotta we stayed in Gitanjali. High amount of pollution in the metro showed up as black dirt in my nose after a short drive from Sealdah station to the hotel. We reached Sealdah around 6am and left from Howrah at 3pm by Coromandal Express. In between we had time to see the new market and buy some clothes and to taste the traffic jams of Kolkotta. Took a rickshaw drive for amusement and saw a tram which is seen only in Kolkotta when in India. The massive Howrah bridge will stay afresh in my memory.

We got stuck in Madras on X-mas day. We were in the waiting list of Trivandrum mail. This year’s X-mas was in hotel Picnic with ‘fire ball’ from Sikkim. We reached home on 27th in Kochu Veli express, a special train during Sabarimala season.

2008 Review

2008-12-31T18:23:00.000+03:00

This year was pretty good. There were both good and bad times. My mother’s mother passed away, learned the severity of blood cancer when it took my aunt’s husband away from us, had our family together in Qatar, started a blog, my son started schooling, went for a long journey and now I am ready to swing into 2009.

Viewing Sikkim.

2008-12-31T16:23:00.009+03:00

We went for a walk in the evening. We went to the MG Marg. The road is paved with stones and is intended only for pedestrians .It is the only MG road named meaningfully I have seen, because Mahathma Gandhi was a pedestrian. There were a number of shops around it. We bought mittens, gloves, shoes, a hiking bag and some souvenirs.

The cleanliness of the town is commentable. It was very neat. We could see the importance Govt. gave to pedestrians. The footpaths had hand rails in all busy routes.

Gangtok was a bit colder. That much cold we experience in Ooty, kodai , Munnar , waynad etc.

The next day we went to see Nathuala pass which is between China and India. To see snow clad mountains we had to travel more than 3 hours. We saw army camps, mountain settlements and numerous small streams. Everyone who came for this adventure was keen to see the snow.

After covering 14200ft altitude we got down from the vehicle. Everyone seemed normal. But we could feel the oxygen deficiency. I felt slightly dizzy. So we took rest for a while and then started climbing up to reach the top most point which was some 30m away. It was physically demanding. As advised we had had popcorn and climbed at a low pace. I felt my heart beating at a greater speed and thought it may come out just as in Tom and Jerry. So we gave lot of time gap between every ten steps.

Finally when we reached, there was Indian flag fluttering in the cold breeze. There were Indian soldiers on one side and Chinese soldiers on the other side of a small fence. Both were very friendly to us. We had tea from the army canteen and took snow in hand. There was not enough to make a snow man. It was freezing cold.

While we sleep peacefully it is these soldiers who guard us never minding the harsh climates.Nathula pass was closed. If it is open we can cross the border and buy things from China.

After that we returned and on the way got down at Tsango Lake. This lake will be frozen during severe winter, mostly in Jan and Feb. There we had Yak rides. I was afraid of this animal which had a monster like look. Poor creatures they moved only at the command of their owners.

Then we went down to Baba mandir. I was too tired, especially felt it in my chest. I had head ache also. So took rest when other group members went out. The driver suggested an extra view point, but everyone said no to it. So we winded our trip. By 4:30, the sun set. There was heavy fog on the way. Our driver washed his car from a stream on the way and we were busy passing comments like, “You wash your car once a year?”

Fog had descended and spread in the valleys, an eye catching site though tough to cope. It was drizzling when we reached. Our driver told, “From next day onwards the temperature will gradually drop down. There will be snow fall in the mountains. No tourist will be allowed to go beyond a certain point. They allows but in our own risk.” We felt lucky to see the border then.

By 6:30pm we were in the taxi stand. I got down and vomited nicely. Went back to Hungry Jack, took a paracetamol and slept for an hour and woke up just as fresh as in the morning.

The next day we had to go back. Our train from NJP was at 8pm. So we thought of going in the rope way. But there was no luck. There was assembly meeting and they had closed the rope way due to that. We went to the flower show. It was good. There was some flora unique to the mountains.

Then went to see Bathang falls. Scenic, but our(Kerala) road side drainages have more water than it.

Then we went to craft emporium. Bought a baku for myself, which is the traditional dress of Sikkim. I really admired Rinchen, wearing it.

That’s it. Trip of the year got over. Tomato chutney and passion fruit squash are must buy from Sikkim. Everyone here loved both. My friend should have warned me of the Dallale chilly pickle. It’s so hot and it is what we call hot. I am keeping it for turning away some people.

Everyone at home was really worried. They had questioned us for such a long and risky journey especially after the Mumbai terrorist episode. But for my friendship with Rinchen this trip wouldn’t have been possible. Don’t know whether I will be returning to this land in this life time. For sure, my memories will wander back.

Journey from NJP to Gangtok

2008-12-31T15:37:00.006+03:00

We had to go offline for a while. Our connection got cut due to some silly reasons.

New Jal Paiguri is the nearest railway station to Sikkim. From Jalpaiguri onwards my eyes wandered for the Himalayas. We had to wait for an hour more to see them. They were not snow clad. We travelled along a beautiful river called Teesta. The river was not deep. Some tourists were kayaking in the river.

We saw a massive dam under construction. There were monkeys sitting on the side of Sevok road waiting for food given by the passengers.

Rangpo is a border town between Sikkim and Bengal. The Bengal side of the town had many pan shops and the other side had many wine shops. Pan is banned in Sikkim and the state is famous for alcohol. In twenty minutes we reached Singtam and in 40 minutes came Gangtok. We could see two breweries on our way. We saw terrace farming there.

It was such a relief to see a good road not too steep and without any hair pin turns usually seen in hilly areas. I am very much afraid of them. The border road organisation is doing a very good job there. These roads face a lot of erosion due to landslides, monsoons and small streams that springs when the snow melts plus it’s their only road to Siliguri. It’s a commercial centre close to NJP. Anything needed for life in mountains can be purchased from there at a cheap rate.

We reached Gangtok around 1:30pm. The journey was good, had some pleasant moments with Rinchen and her brother.

Quick Tour

2008-12-20T17:38:00.002+03:00

This post is a quick tour of our journey to Sikkim.From Chennai we left at 3pm. Our agent informed our plane is going to get delayed. We worried whether we will be delayed indefinitely and miss the train to Sikkim. The lesson learned is never trust the flight timings, especially that of IC. Plan enough break time between journeys.
Our plane was delayed for one hour. I was sure to see a celebrity on the way. I saw Kumble on the airport. He was on the phone all the time.

We could catch the train. Got a glimpse of the good and worse parts of Chennai and Kolkotta.Hired a taxi to the Sealdah station. We started from Kolkotta around 10pm. The whether was cold, but not too cold.Some woolen clothes and bed sheets saved us from the cold. Our co passengers were to Siliguri. We reached on right time, around 8am.

All went well and was very happy and relieved to see Rinchen and Sonam (Thanks). Had a pleasant journey from Siliguri to Sikkim. It was quiet an experience with beautiful scenery. The journeys through the plains were very good. I will share the experiences in the Himalayan moutains in next post. This is from Hungry Jack, Gangtok.

From Chennai

2008-12-19T11:24:00.001+03:00

Our journey home started at 9pm on 15th December. As we left Bab Al Khor, I felt sad and I knew I will miss her.But I had missed my mother land for more than 7 months. Everyone and everything looked the same, except new ads which had gained space in towns. They seemed to make her little more posh.

I thought I won’t be using internet here and was considering it as an opportunity for deaddiction. But the IT is growing at an enormous speed that it will stick to its lovers like glue. We got a USB modem from Reliance. It has lifelong longevity and can be used anywhere in India for one month, unlimitedly. After that we have to recharge it. So I continue to be a mouse potato.

This post is from Chennai, Royal Paris. Alappey Express took us here. Journey was good. Next destination is Kolkotta. We will be leaving shortly.

Surfing and Travelling

2008-12-14T13:46:00.005+03:00

Tomorrow I will be busy packing. On 16th I have to be in Kerala. Right now, I am surfing frantically. Coz, day after tomorrow I will be in a net free zone. But I hope to have an year end review and a travelogue from a new place. So this is
definitely not the last post of the year. A wish and hope.

Sarlas

2008-12-13T15:36:00.006+03:00

We had special guests yesterday. So I made Biriyani; for the first time. An apparently herculean task reduced to a game of left hand. I forgot to get it on lens. This is a side dish for Biriyani. We call it Sarlas. It is also known as onion raitha and salad. A mix of sliced onions, salt and curd. I have sprinkled red chilly powder for the red colour.

This flower is simple. All we have to do is peel a tomato and curl it.

My expectation about the lunch was limited success, but enjoyed a big one.

Shopping

2008-12-11T15:02:00.002+03:00

I love days like this. We are going for a shopping spree. My husband is absolutely clueless about the list as I don’t have one. As usual Lulu is going to be our destination. Dismayed by the global financial crisis I am doing my bit to fuel the economy. Not actually, can't wait for the right time as our leave will lapse if not acquired on time.

Unbearably light post

2008-12-08T07:58:00.005+03:00

"The unbearable lightness of being", I have felt it many a times; when I travel through country roads, when someone else takes my position in my absence, when I stay in the four walls of a room in a dynamic world etc. It is a famous novel by Milan Kundera set in Prague 1962.

I didn't read it. I read only the review. That's how I go about novels these days. Liked it and would love to read it. Also read the review of "The Memoirs of a geisha" by Arthur Golden. Now there are two books I would love to read.

Hajj hols are here; 3 days from today. I am left with nothing to do, but to plan and arrange the grand hols starting from 15th. This post, I guess is going to be useful as a remider.

Experiments with fasting

2008-12-05T22:28:00.007+03:00

The vacation is planned from 15th. As usual my weight started bothering me. At home all are loving and caring. They speak very wisely and select only topics that affect us little. But my misinterpretations offset their intention to placate.

“You have become fat and good. But look at him; he looks the same, worse."Which I interpret like this, I do everything to make me good and take little care of him or I cook badly. Very true sometimes, but the last thing I want them to know. Poor people, the last thing they meant were this from the small talk.

This time also there is chance for such talks. I must do something to reverse it.

This thought made me experiment fasting. Yesterday, fasted. Fasting started from day before yesterday soon after sunset. Yesterday after sun set, broke it. It was pretty easy and all went very well.

Nothing seemed to bother except... me being temperamental for a while at night. But could crack some jokes in between. So that was a minor trouble. I observed that as far as I am concerned tea is an unavoidable drink; the morning tea... Spend some time thinking whether to have or not have it. Then finally decided to have it, without which I would have gone very low. The last one hour was the hardest. I lit the lamp for prayer and started chanting hymns half an hour earlier. So fasting can advance us in the spiritual path. I gave up noodles, chocolate wafers, potato chips and the things I prepare for my son. So this enabled me to realize how I get fat in spite of having small amounts of regular meals. My stomach did reduce an inch or two. But today, after a regular day following the day of fasting, it has gone back to its previous state.

For the first time lunch was prepared before noon on a Friday. So my husband observed, “If you fast everything will run on time neatly.” I had prepared a colourful lunch for him; rice (white), Spinach (green), peas and plantains (brown) and traditional moru (curd) curry (yellow).

My fasting was far from the best. I drank water, tea, and honey in water and tasted the food items I cooked (not because I was hungry, but to ensure a tasty lunch). It’s always better to follow a scientific way of approach to fasting and to advance spiritually, incorporate religious days and methods.

These were the observations and conclusions of this fast. This was not my first fast. Years before I used to fast. In the last year of my college I had tried it several times. The first fast was simple; taking a meal in a day. Then the intensity of fasting gradually increased. Once I almost fainted after a day’s fast while returning home from the nearest temple. But, the enthusiasm to fast only increased.

At home no one had taught me to fast. In my childhood being hungry seemed an utopian idea. The numerous benefits of fasting attracted me. Weight loss, healing, cleansing the body and spiritual advancements are some of them. I would like to continue this practice a day per week.

Blog Fever Over

2008-11-30T22:08:00.003+03:00

Yippee….
This blog is progressive. You are watching a satisfied soul…..

Cause
blogging

Symptoms
A silly smile
Lack of attention in dicussions, may nod the head though
Well aware of international and national issues and unaware of neighborhood news..

Effects
Head ache
Messy house
Dissatisfied folks
Burned food and utensils

Another incomplete list in my blog..

Dazzling Saree

2008-11-30T21:56:00.003+03:00

Saree is still an eye catcher. Last year I had been to a party thrown by an Arab lady. Varun was invited along with his mother for this party. He got invited because his father worked for one of their companies. It was for ladies and kids only. She expected all to come in fancy dress.

It was fabulous. There was a popcorn maker and candy maker in one corner. There were rides usually seen in parks in their house( may be hired , I have no idea). There was an inflated slide especially hired for the occasion. A chocolate dip brewing machine was kept in one corner. Food items stretched to a length of 10m. Snacks were distributed every half an hour. The center stage saw many functions. Gift packets were distributed to the guests after the party which had a small toy and some snacks.

Indians were dressed in Churithar( a comfy dress when you have a naughty kid to take care all alone) except a lady who was clad in Saree. I despise Saree because it is highly uncomfortable. Some times I feel it’s a waste of cloth and it’s a funny dress. My conviction proved wrong after the party. The lady in saree got at least a glance per person. She also got compliments from different nationals . Sure it was an expensive saree which cost around 5k.

So for any function I have little doubt as what to wear when I don’t have a new dress. The saree was 2005 model bought from Kalyan Silks, Thrissur.Now it’s needless to say who the lady was.

Van lady

2008-11-30T21:54:00.002+03:00

The first call I received on one day was from Aysha. She was looking for a substitute for the lady who goes with children in the van. The search engine called my memory failed to come up with a suitable result. I decided to help her myself. Soon after the classes got over I went to the van. It was full of happy children.

The trip was so much fun. A cute girl invited me to her house. I got a free introduction to a friendly boy’s mother. I made the day of two little girls by making them sit in my lap. They were happy because I was their teacher. I saw the number of ways in which parent’s welcomed the children.

Whole family came to welcome a little girl. The warmest welcome indeed. Then the next best was given to another girl and her friend, by her father and her little brother.

Dedicated to Chachaji

2008-11-30T19:24:00.004+03:00

The woods are lovely, dark and deep,
But I have promises to keep,
And miles to go before I sleep,
And miles to go before I sleep.
- - - -Robert Frost "Stopping by Woods on a Snowy Evening"

I know these are lines once stayed for long on the desk of Nehru. I had learned this poem in my school. I like it very much.

The children’s day celebrations in Varun’s school were excellent. Tiny tots came in beautiful dresses. The snacks served were superior quality. As soon as they heard, it was Nehru’s birthday; they sang the happy birthday song. Teachers enjoyed a nice photo session. The left over snacks were kept aside in school’s locker and were served on the following days. It made the children happy.

Movers

2008-11-30T19:16:00.002+03:00

My husband manages movers and shakers. This video is taken by him. Learned how to hoist a body (a ships propeller) having a weight of 56 ton, on a Friday. Actually a crane of capacity 150 ton is needed for that. But when you don’t have the resource, you can do it with the help of two cranes with 75 ton capacity guided by three well experienced operators. The safety personals may not agree, but the work can be done safely.

First lift the body, bring the low bed of the trailer beneath it, then lower it on to the trailer slowly. Take it to the desired place. To unload, hoist the body slightly from the trailer and then, drive away the trailer and carefully place the body in the required place.

Blogging

2008-11-30T19:11:00.002+03:00

Out of a misty dream
Our path emerges for a while, then closes
Within a dream.
- - - -Ernest Dowson

The first line was about love. I purposely ignored it to suit the blogging trend of this blog. There was considerable decrease in screen time in this month despite the increasing screens. This was a year which made me an experienced blogger. It’s going to be almost a year now. The lesson learned is living life is far more important than a blog post.

Sometimes I ignore my family to have a blog post, which sends them to cranky moods. Then I regret for doing that. The rules get relaxed for them then. They enjoy that though.

Even if I slow the pace of blogs nothing will happen. It’s their experience, actions and words I borrow to write.Still blogging is such a relaxing sport when we have a fine range of topics to write about.

Family health

2008-11-30T19:09:00.001+03:00

This month witnessed bad health of the family. The worst health problems of the year was in Feb. We had gone for vacation then. The first week went with no problems. Varun , got a fever in the second week followed by me. It took a month for him to adjust, by the time he lost 2kg.

Old people near my home say, small health problems on a regular basis are good. It prevents sudden attack of a severe disease. They will then come up with examples. A good way to console the patients.

Bad Mess

2008-11-30T19:08:00.001+03:00

Badly cooked food can affect everyone. One day we had special guests from an Al Khor company camp. They wanted to have good food which they said was tasted from home, back in Kerala. Don’t worry I am not going to self praise this time. They brought all the ingredients and used our facilities to cook a tasty lunch.

I am honored because this means much more than friendly visits to me.

How the upcoming blogs got blocked

2008-11-30T19:07:00.001+03:00

There were a number of things I wanted to blog about. I kept it aside partly out of laziness and partly out of lack of time. In the usual blogging time I fall into slumbers and it detains me in that state till tea time. That causes an increased worry about the body weight which in spite of my best efforts is going in the wrong direction.

Blogathon

2008-11-30T19:06:00.001+03:00

This is 30th November and the trend in my blog says it’s not so long before I retreat. So readers I am hovering posts today...

Watching Life

2008-11-27T15:48:00.004+03:00

Today learned how terrific was yesterday and today for India. I totally understood the gravity of the situation as we have considered a trip to Mumbai. I wish our intelligence and security systems were tighter.

Ironically, yesterday was a peaceful day for me. I sat in a car in front of a bakery near to a saloon all alone just listening to old Malayalam music. My son insisted that I come for his hair cut. I don’t know for how long I sat there idle, but it passed in a winks time. It could be more than an hour. Number of persons from different nations passed in front of me. Al Khor lightings were blinding. Below are some songs I hearted.

1. Karakana kadalala mele mohapoonguruvi paranne..
2. Areyum bhavagayakanakkum.....
3. Rithubetha chandrika charutha meettiya...

Enjoyed it thoroughly. I haven’t done that for years. Motherhood changes everything in life. The focus shifts from self. It also happens when our family grows bigger and when girls decides to become serious matrons leaving the reckless girlhood behind. But sure I haven’t left it fully. Used the vacuum cleaner yesterday. The previous usage was months back.

God, I am thankful to you for what I am and what I have. I know nothing is guaranteed to exist here for the next moment. I bow before you with utmost respect. I wish 9/11 doesn’t repeat. There is fire in the fourth floor of hotel Taj, a landmark building in Mumbai.

How wierd are you?

2008-11-23T21:22:00.003+03:00

Took this wierd test today.

Take the test and post your quotient. It takes only a few minutes.

I am pretty sane. Saw an amazed hubby. This will make my son proud.

Are we really free

2008-11-21T09:07:00.003+03:00

A hot topic in an online community now.

We are free to be what we want to be, all the restrictions imposed are by ourselves. Human mind is conditioned to conform to the norms of the society. Lot of courage is needed to break it. At first the society may not accept it. Later when it does those who did it may become heroes.

Immortal

2008-11-18T15:58:00.005+03:00

Today I read what Dalai Lama has to say for 2008. It came as a beautiful forwarded message with stunning pictures. Wise thoughts. The following thought I thought will be appropriate for all bloggers doing their best.

Share your knowledge. It is a way to achieve immortality.

Don't worry if the blog hasn't fetched a handsome ransom yet. You know how to be immortal:)

I came across this site yesterday. Hope to revisit when I want a topic to blog about. The blog posts are very small. The beauty of the blog comes in the comments section. Got it from the 'blogs of note’ in the blogger dashboard.

Disclaimer for CEBL

2008-11-13T16:29:00.002+03:00

This blog is intentionally given a shabby look. Any bad post is due to increased brain processing.

Free

2008-11-12T16:07:00.004+03:00

It's not easy to have a trouble free life with Rajesh. That's what Amritha thinks now. When they rearranged their furniture a month ago she expected a peaceful life ahead. But after a few days,
Rajesh: I will get some furniture today. It's all free..
A :Don't bring it. There's no space.
R: It's all A class pieces.Let's throw the old ones.
A: How are you going to bring it here?
R: I will arrange the boom truck from our company. Don't worry.
A: How can I when you are doing it.
R: Give me your photograph.
A: Yes,why now?
R: To arrange a Sathrusamhara pooja(Religious ritual carried out to destroy enemies).
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Days passed.She finally saw a boom truck in front of her house.
A: How is it going?
R: Perfect, except the front wall.
She had a look at the wall and managed not to faint.
R: The boom truck gave a kiss.

The workers left with a 'sorry' and all the repairing works carried out later were not free.

All is well ,that does not end well

2008-11-10T08:05:00.003+03:00

Climate does have an influence in our lives. (Priya, I changed my mind. Rather climate made me do so.) Why else am I nursing a child on a November day? He got a very good throat infection and fever. We know winter is here when we see an increase in the number of patients before a paediatrician.

The people who are sad, when all are well and enjoys a healthy life are the private doctors and pharmacists. There are also people who can’t be happy when everyone on earth lives in harmony with no disputes. They are the lawyers.

Neighbourhood lady: Where do you take your son when he is sick?
I: Hamad hospital in Al Khor
NL: Is there any Malayalee doctors for children there? We trust Mallu doctors only. We usually go to Rafa in Doha.
I: No Mallu doctors. But Doha is too far. By the time we go and come back patient will get another disease. So if it is not an emergency I take him to the paediatric emergency here!

A real conversation between me and Shany.

Life in Jeddah

2008-11-06T21:01:00.003+03:00

See Saudi through my eyes. I had heard of Saudi before my marriage, but never gave a heed until I met the one who spreads light in my love life. When I finally fixed a guy for marriage, the responses were mixed.

My father: I am going for an audit for 2 days. Change your mind before I come back.
Big B1: Oh no, what have you done?
Big B2: Poor girl. (Poor guy actually.)
My aunt in Dubai: You can always get a better match. Come here.

Some others: Nothing to worry. You seem made for each other.

All the positively negative responses came because he worked in Jeddah during that time. I got married in May 2002. The world trade centre’s collapse and Osama had not gone from everyone’s mind. Osama’s home country is Saudi.

Some were familiar with the strict rules of Saudi. If caught for carrying drugs to Saudi, they will cut off that person’s head, no matter it happened with or without the convict’s knowledge. If caught for theft, they will cut off the palm off the thief. Saudi nationals can escape from the rules with their influence and cash, but for expats there is no way out.

Once when an innocent Indian was caught for carrying drugs, Indira Gandhi interfered. When the authorities refused to release him, she ordered to arrest all Saudi nationals in India. They come to India for relaxing and doing all the things prohibited by law in Saudi. If they returned, the Govt. should take necessary action. How can they punish all those filthy wealthy influential people? So they immediately released the detainee. This was a popular story I heard from my friends circle so I can’t claim any authenticity.

Then many feared the parda system. I found it very attractive. It means less strain in dressing up. Some of my gentlemen friends also wished to wear parda. Lol! They will be wearing a mundu beneath the parda in office. Later many anti-socials were uncovered in public with parda. Now there are police women to check the ladies in parda.

I found the accommodations very good and cheap. All the commodities were cheaper compared to other GCC countries. Saudi is the biggest GCC country. The number of products manufactured there are also more. It is the world’s largest oil producer.

During Hajj, people halt in Jeddah. It is the nearest town to Makkah. Some countries have Hajj accommodation facilities there. On the occasion of Ramzan they get 4 holidays and for Hajj they get 8 holidays. Once we spend the Ramzan in a mansion with swimming pool with friends. Some dudes drank the pool water mistaking it for alcohol. It is a prohibited drink in Saudi. But how can guys familiar with alchohol, manage to live without it?

Ladies were not allowed to work except as teachers, nurses, doctors and house maids. That’s a stupid law which needs reform. Some reforms have come now. Ladies are not allowed to drive. In Saudi a famous lady pilot goes to airport in a chauffeured car. But, good excuse for lazy ladies. Saudi ladies are not lazy; they work in the production field.

Ladies stay home most of the time. I found the place ideal for honeymoon couples. I had a lot of time for myself then.

Our main shopping destination was Bin Dawood. The occasional outings confined to parks, corniche, souqs in Balad, some super markets and cultural events. But frequent visits were paid to friends (all great people). I could improve my skills on some card games like rummy, 28, 56 and paral. We now call them to say two words mainly. That is “miss you”.

There are a number of places to visit in Saudi. But non Muslims are not allowed to enter Makkah. There are geographically dissimilar places. Saudi offers a lot to explorers.

I liked the place then. So the proverb ‘beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder’ fits here.

An election won

2008-11-06T05:27:00.003+03:00

"I will listen to you. I will listen to you more when we disagree." Obama's words on 4th November after winning a historic election. When he takes charge on 20th Jan 2009 he will be the first African - Americam president.

Watched the speeches of Obama and Mc Cain. Found both very interesting.

Vacation Ahead

2008-10-30T17:19:00.007+03:00

We are planning a vacation in December. If it was 3 years back, I would have blogged this at least four months back because we do a lot of preparation for that. We wander through malls, ‘souqs’, hyper markets and small shops to buy the finest things for even the most distant relative, who comes to our mind. Anyway I will not fully forget the custom.

Customs people call the flights from here ‘Lekshmi’(Goddess of all richness) flights. But now it has changed a lot. All the things are available at home. Here, cost of living skyrocketed. Day by day, commodities which we want to purchase are increasing and becoming available.

Still there are some things, which seem very attractive here.
1. The only insect causing nuisance is cockroach. When I say this to someone in an affirmative tone I see really troublesome things like a scorpion and snake in our villa. But in flats there is nothing to worry except the cockroaches. With extreme temperatures and less green compounds survival is hard for insects.

NIMBY: CAPTURED ON A HOT DAY

2. The sea with no tide. Sometimes it looks like a big swimming pool to me.

KHOR CORNICHE
3. The fuel price which is less than drinking water.
4. The holy month of Ramadan.
5. The infrastructure of a developed country.

DOHA

I will keep updating this list with bits and pieces. Is there something I can bring for you? Let me know. What I like to take home is colourful memories we had in the not so colourful desert.

Cleaning

2008-10-25T15:56:00.003+03:00

The mess in the home shrivelled to cupboards. The home looks superficially clean. Weeks of laziness in cleaning mounted to half a day’s work. Experienced the kind of joy archaeologists have on discovering certain links and lost past. There were a number of things that vanished during the period. They were recovered from tough to reach places.

When I go to Kerala I spend first few days in Perinjanam and then the next few days in Nadvaramaba . I will be cleaning and tidying everywhere with just one goal in mind, that is perfection. It fetched me two names and nothing else from my folks. They call me jokingly Cleanliness Freak and Born Cleaner.

I think it’s a good idea to trade perfectionism for excellence. What I dislike is they find me totally distasteful in arts. Actually art at home means more work for me. Let me have that lottery which will get me some good workers at home. Then I will show off my taste. Doesn't this remind you of Innocent in Kilukkam? Both of us live in the same town.

Veruthe Oru Bharya

2008-10-25T09:10:00.002+03:00

My first movie in a Gulf theatre happens to be ‘Veruthe Oru Bharya’, which means a worthless wife. I used all similar clichés to accomplish this.

We went for the 5:30pm show. As there was no diesel in whole Al Khor, we had to go all the way back to Thakeera to get it. I was so annoyed that he made up his mind for the show at 8:30pm. We booked the ticket and went to Indian Cultural Centre which seemed to lack what it’s name proclaimed from outside. It was a shabby building. We went there for his passport renewal.

Next stop was Wear house. We were sure to buy a winter coat for him. They had not arrived. I got a pair of slippers instead which was out of plan. Thus displaying my lack of will power and the power of super duper markets, we returned to the theatre.

Doha Cinema theatre was cosy and houseful. See the judges’ remark.
1. An out dated theme.
2. The reason for Jayaram’s dislike towards wife house didn’t get registered.
3. Song lyrics were superb. Liked the music as well.
4. Liked the way it started. By the time the opening song finished we got an idea about the theme.
5. Jayaram’s performance was great. His daughter also scored. Suraj was also good.
6. I liked some dialogues, which were an adaption from day to day life. Eg :The reply by Jayaram’s daughter to her mother, “Everyone gets carried by someone in their childhood, that doesn’t mean that they shouldn’t grow up and get married.” In world it’s so common for the elders to talk about their hardships to the youngsters. I also liked the dialogue about the desperation of average men in Kerala.
7. We have seen similar scenes and characters in other movies.
8. Over all OK.

I liked the first experience. The thought of causing discomfort to Varun, which might have caused disturbance to us kept us away from the theatres here. But our attempt to watch ‘Kolkatta news’, in Kerala was a success.

He gave his best performance. He said loudly on watching the screen, “Big TV.” He was curious and queried most of the time. He asked, “Why is she bathing the cow?” There was popcorn and juice to engage him.

I found the movie, entirely different from the review I read. It’s hard to get correct information in Qatar or maybe I don’t know to do that. Misleading ads are everywhere. The Mozaic TV subscription didn’t have half of the facilities advertised when bought. Now some of them seem to be available on paying cash. Anyway don’t want to volunteer for customer welfare associations now.

Launch of Chandrayan -1

2008-10-23T18:21:00.004+03:00

22/10/2008 may seem an ordinary day for everyone, but for Indians it's the day they attempted to reach the nearest celestial body. Chandrayan -1 was launched. In 15 days it will be reaching Lunar orbit.
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EDITED TO INCLUDE

The prob from Chandrayan crash landed on the moon's surface on 14th November at 8:31 pm.ISRO thus launched successfully a moon probe. It took photos of the moon's surface and send them to the moon craft(Chanrayaan-1).India is the 4th country after US,Russia and Japan to launch a moon probe.

An Evening in Doha

2008-10-23T15:52:00.003+03:00

Life’s little pleasures come with small adversities. A business meeting made me visit Doha International Exhibition center along with my husband and son. We lost a bid. The subsequent financial unsettlement is the adversity.

My headache found us in a nearby coffee shop. That’s the little pleasure. We were the only customers then. I sipped tea with English music; I don’t know which song it was. Varun ordered a juice and cheese bread. He was certainly a hungry little fellow because he ate all of it except for a few slices which we sneaked. There was no other way we could have had it from his plate. His choice was delicious.

He was on his best behavior in 3 years. In all the previous cases similar to this one, we spend time worrying about his tests of gravity of costly things, to which all showed normal reaction. If not he will not like to sit inside and one of us will have to wait outside with him and he will be doing all the possible mischief. This took all the fun away.

WHAT AN INNOCENT BOY! IN PHOTO

But an evaporating bank balance is coming in the way of having fun in eating out in the near future. Only numbers shooting up seems the food and rent prices.

After this there was yet another visit to Lulu departmental stores. Shopped for Varun, the dresses he wears at home being small.

On the return journey we witnessed a minor accident between two Arabs. The difficulty to wait in queue caused it. They might have solved it themselves and exchanged kisses. If at least an expat was involved, there would have been a big traffic jam, requiring the police to come and solve both the problems.

We went in the evening and came back around 10pm. Here all prefers night life due to the working hours and heat during day time. Summer starts effecting from April and stays approximately till November, so most of the time in a year we are worried about heat and sweat.

DIEC is gaining some importance in my life as I visit it bimonthly. Quite contrary to this visit, it was crowded on all other visits. I discovered a thing I did automatically and subconsciously. It was turning the stove off. All the way I was worried about a pressure cooker, on an on stove and was happy to see the stove in the off state after the trip.

For Sachin

2008-10-18T16:20:00.003+03:00

D: “See he got another record.”
I: “You know, his sun sign is Taurus.”
D: “He and I was born in the same year.”
Suddenly there were a lot of similarities between us and Tendulkar.

Tendulkar reached the milestone on 17th , surpassing the 11,953 runs West Indian batting legend Brian Lara scored before he retired from international cricket in 2007.He became the highest run scorer in test matches.

I too celebrate this because he is my contemporary. I had always liked his style of batting. There were times when I felt his failures to be mine. I remember defending his failures in front of many. I used to say, “Don’t measure his strength by viewing three or four matches. He is a legend.”

He was lucky to start his carrier at the age of 15, very early. This is a prediction coming true for many.

Ageing

2008-10-16T22:30:00.002+03:00

A photo of mine, taken 10 years back attracted my attention today. Found it very good compared to the present ones. “10 years from now, you will like it(present photos)” ,said an inner voice. :)

Threads from Threats

2008-10-15T16:04:00.001+03:00

My blog missed a day. But I made it up on another blog. I have posted a strong comment there. Wonder which blog it is? You will know only if I get brickbats there. Any threats of criticism to it are going to be good for this blog. It’s a strong thread.

Actually I find every thread strong. I will have something to say about whatever happens on this earth. I will say, “I didn’t know” at least.

Super Star Movies

2008-10-13T15:18:00.004+03:00

I don’t have any blind faith in Super stars of Kerala but the two films I watched during these holidays had super stars.

1. Madambi
Mohanlal played the role of a money lender in it. Liked all one line humours. Except for two or three actors all others failed in using the slang properly. I am so familiar with it (Thanks to all my friends in Adoor, Mallappilly, Pala, Thiruvalla and Pathanamthitta.) that I found its usage in the movie artificial.
2. Parunthu
I felt blessed for not watching it in a theatre and also for watching it through a pirated CD. Mammooty is also a money lender in it. He is a hard nut. But he undergoes transformation after a serious accident. But there was nothing much he could do to transform the world. No one is ready to trust him due to his previous character. This is a zero humour movie. I liked a line which I would like to spread throughout the world.

Madhyapanam Thadikku Kedu
Keesakku Mosam
Alchoholism is injurious to health and wealth.

I am not a teetotaller, but have never drunk so much to lose my mind. We have to take responsibility for ourselves, our actions and the children we bring in to this world.All gents reading this should know one thing, we (ladies) may look cute when we are drunk but you don’t.

Watched both of them in a stretch and found Madambi much better.We planned to see the super movie “Veruthe Oru Barya”. I could see only “Veruthe oru Bharthavu” because he couldn’t keep his promise, which was to take me along with friends for the movie. His sincere attempt failed because, only a misleading ad of the movie came to Doha cinema center during that time.

Being an Artist

2008-10-12T17:12:00.007+03:00

Holidays are packed with more action than working days. Friday some animals stole 18 hrs of the day. Thought Saturday will be the same. But Aqeela came and her economics doubts stole my morning and some birds stole my afternoon. I was not ready to budge from my work table, but my hero (bless him) succeeded in taking me to Doha in the evening.

We got our rations from Kerala through a friend who came from Perinjanam. My patner’s home is there. It’s my home now. We had to distribute some of it between friends and relatives. We did some preparations in advance for winter by buying some clothes.

I just finished drawing animals and birds on a chart. It’s to decorate a class room. “Never expected this much art with that character.” commented a coveted artist in my home.

He played the role of Rama by converting a rock to an elephant (not Ahalya) with some final touch ups and thus taking some credit which otherwise should have been mine completely.

Principal, if you ask for a copy of this work, no, I have no time for that. (Actually I have.Hahaha..It will be a compliment.) I am thankful to you because I could discover a hidden talent for which I had an aversion.

“Phew!” I was so immersed in the project that I hardly found time to come here. It’s like coming to the surface for the first breath.

Now, you got why I was away for two days.

Recreation Days

2008-10-08T23:10:00.005+03:00

Nothing is clear. I can remember, but only very vaguely, about the 3 days we used to shun studies in St. Mary’s hostel. I don’t remember on which days it was, but I remember how it was.

When I was there, top girl students all over Kerala joined St. Mary’s college due to the famous PC Thomas sir and his engineering and medical entrance coaching centre. His remark on the three days was like this “There is no need for separate days for recreation.”

In the first year songs from Alisha Chenoy’s Album,Made in India and in the second year Songs from Dilwale Dulhaniya Le Jayenge rocked the hostel.

When our peers outside the hostel were busy preparing for the exams we were discovering the insanity in us. I had to act like Sreenivasan on stage. I surprised many by dancing like him to the song “ pavizha malli poothulanja neela vanam.......”.

After 3 days of complete recreation we were asked to stop all recreation activities suddenly by a sister, who was our hostel warden. That aroused the fury of all. Suddenly everyone decided to take part in a Satyagraha under the leadership of some degree students at 11pm in the night. Then the next day everyone attended the classes, but making sure to wear at least a piece of black cloth on the body as a protest to the rudest attitude we had to face. But all anger melted due to the expression of the deepest feelings by the warden followed by a vow from us, which was not to take such types of protests again.

Who made the brightest brains tune to a station were all weird things happen? (self praising intended.) May be it was God’s mischief through his brides.

Pooja holidays.

2008-10-07T18:24:00.001+03:00

When I was young, I remember looking forward to this day of the year. That is the day before Mahanavami. We keep the books in front of Saraswathy on the evening of this day. On Mahanavami books should be there. It is a day to suspend all the learning activities.On the next day, that is on Vijayadasami we take the books back. We won’t be in any hurry for that.

But the urge to read will be much hyped during this period.

Girls and Boys

2008-10-06T19:29:00.001+03:00

I find teaching boys, a mountain moving task due to the Attention Deficiency Hyper Activity syndrome. They get distracted even by the sound of a pin drop. They won’t miss any chance to expend their physical energy.

Girls very rarely show this. They seem to be cautious in expending energy. Very seldom they exhaust themselves. Whatever they do they conserve some amount of energy.

Desert Safari

2008-10-05T13:30:00.021+03:00

Desert Stretching to the Horizon

Our group consisted of four adults and 2 kids. My brother, his wife , my husband and I were the crew for desert Safari.On 3rd we planned to go to the Al Khor gardens. By the time we all got ready it was 12am. It was very hot out side. The summer is just retreating now. We decided to go to Simaisma instead.

It's a place in between Al khor and Doha. This place is a blessing for those who like a dwelling in between Doha and Al Khor.To our surprise we saw a very good beach. We also saw something-is-better -than -nothing type parks and shops there. There were some good villas for rent.

My angle of view

Other crew members

An Old Mosque

Remains of past in Simaisma

Distant view of Al Khor gardens. We were afraid of getting lost. My brother assured to take us back to our house by his plan . It was to take the same route for return journey when the petrol becomes half in the tank.

Arabs were fisher men. They like sailing. Most of them own sail boats.

A palm tree farm in Al Khor

Farm fence

Simaisma beach

Remains of past in Al Khor.Al Khor goes back a long time, though habitation has not been continuous – excavations have found remains dating back to between 5600 – 5300 BC.

After Simaisma we went to the gardens. On the way my brother equired " Will it be crowdy?"
I said remebering the usual holidays," Crowd ! come, let us see whether there is at least one family." But as we reached there my jaws dropped. Not a single parking space left. So immediately we also left.

Munna Bhai’s Associate.

2008-10-04T13:59:00.002+03:00

I look up to the father of my nation. His legendry dedication to truth and non-violence, together with renunciation, kindness and intelligence made him a very strong person. In spite of all these qualities he was humbler than dust.

In school, I had learnt many lessons about Bapu, some were written by him. Once when asked to write a few words about Bapuji I remember coining the following line. “One of his hobbies was breaking the law.” I attribute the good laugh we had then to my poor vocabulary.

When I was in school, I thought Gandhiji was one who didn’t attempt any mischief. Later I discovered from his autobiography, in teens he was as mischievous as anyone of his time, even more adventurous. He was lucky enough not to fall down in to foul pits.

The hardships he underwent and the way he tackled them will inspire many more like me. I had seen Munna bhai second part. I could have been a very good associate of Munna Bhai.

What do I think now?

2008-10-03T23:22:00.001+03:00

Something is better than nothing.

(About a blog post today)

Veg or Non-Veg

2008-10-01T10:19:00.004+03:00

This is a daring attempt because majority on earth eat non-veg.
I find butchery nothing more than barbarianism.

At home my zeal to reform some had proved disastrous for me. I in turn chose their path for a while. On my way several reasons came across .

1. People find vegetarians weak.
2. Meat is a cheap source of protein.
3. Vegetarianism is difficult to practice in certain countries due to the non-availability of food items.
4. Vegetable dishes are tasteless.

Now, I know to counter reason.

1. All vegetarians are not weak. Those who don’t want to be strong are the weak.
2. It is a false notion. We get more protein from same amount of pulses.
3. First step to overcome this is to start practicing. Then we will see many stones turning.
4. If we use the right ingredients it will be tasty. I cherish the compliments I get from non-vegetarians for my vegetarian dishes.

Killing accrue sin.

Qatar made me a good cockroach fighter. Our home had numerous small cockroaches. I was bent on not using chemicals to kill them. I used the principle; when water and food is scarce they won’t survive. A friend helped us in sealing the holes and hiding places of them. I cleaned all dishes and rooms before going to sleep at night because they usually come out at night when the lights are turned off. In one month I realized; we can actually avoid killing insects if we can turn the surroundings such that their survival becomes hard.

Those who like to practice Ahimsa will find this tip useful.

Hurray Hurray happy holiday

2008-09-29T11:25:00.002+03:00

Ramadan holidays...

It started form today. Free till 5^th of October. I have an endless list of activities. Some are here because I had postponed them and others are here because I want to do them now.

These days I find the profiles and persons hardly matching. I will follow that example and put my works seem like that.

1. First is decorating the house. (It means cleaning and tidying a mess)

2. Entertain friends (go to their house and ransack it and bug them till they say OUT)

3. Give my brother the joy of picnic. (Outings with Ck n family including shopping)

Sorry, I have many incommunicable things also on my list. Day by day plans finished. Now I have to plan and schedule each mornings, afternoons and nights to execute none. I know at the end I will end up following His schedule due to his unpredictable headaches, emergency calls from office and sudden interest in movies and what not.

I see a wise husband after this because I will be on stress mode. It’s time for him to be back from work now. My fingers ache due to work on computer. On days like this I usually opt for a very low calorie food (practically nothing).

Ramadan and Charity

2008-09-27T10:23:00.004+03:00

I like to be in middle-east during Ramadan. Most people will be anxious to do good deeds. The sumptuous feasts Muslim friends arrange in the evenings save my time in kitchen. Shops offer discount on all things. Working hours are considerably less during this month. Everyone get time for social interaction.

I like perpetuation of good. So I am happy to support any things people do in the name of good, however silly be it. In that sense I shouldn’t be expressing the following idea about charity.

When wisdom strikes it’s unlikely that I don’t log it because it happens very rarely.I am against charity and reservation for any particular group. It takes away the initiative from the deprived group. The theory is that by charity one fools one’s conscience in to appeasement and get along with one’s own life without worrying about others and the beneficiaries end up expecting more charity. I support equal opportunity for everyone. Here, in my blog I take centre stage. Like me anyone can do it because web offers equal opportunity for everyone.

These are not ultimate thoughts, but they seem right to me at this point of time. I leave ample space in my brain for future expansion and reconstruction

School Going Blues.

2008-09-25T21:33:00.001+03:00

1st day: Mother, the school windows are made of glass. They may break and hurt my feet.
2nd day: The school van is full of dust.
3rd day: Father, the school is full of dust.
4th day: I won’t survive the pain of separation from mother.
5th day: I don’t like my class.
6th day: I don’t want to go.
7th day: I will not cry. I will sit in my class. I like my class.
I was particularly happy about 7th day and celebrated his independence. He was not the only child who displayed the school going blues.

He is very possessive and attached to me. It’s embarrassing to see a public display of these feelings. To treat this I ignore his tokens of love. I may have to pay the price at a wrong time in life, but now there is provision for the onward march of many good qualities in him.

Getting and Doing Tags

2008-09-21T21:35:00.006+03:00

The rules for the tag are:

RULE #1 People who have been tagged must write their answers on their blogs and replace any question that they dislike with a new question formulated by themselves.

RULE #2 Tag 6 people to do this quiz and those who are tagged cannot refuse. These people must state who they were tagged by and cannot tag the person whom they were tagged by continue this game by sending it to other people.

1. If your lover betrayed you what would your reaction be?
With all my charm I will invite him to the top floor of a tall building. I will say “Look how beautiful it is! Come here near the window. Look down”. Then I will aim nicely and kick his butt.
That’s just a funny answer I could think out. In real life I will just degrade him in my mind and will try to get along with the world. I will try to be more creative in all the fields I can think of.

2. If you have a dream come true, what would it be?
A Nobel price

3. If you could, whose butt would you like to kick?
Highly corrupt people who will not then have a chance to come back to this earth again.

4. What would you do with a billion dollars?
I will do what Rajni did in “Shivaji”, clear all bureaucrats with the help of Gundas and convert villages to highly productive societies by investing in schools, universities and environment friendly factories.

5. Will you fall in love with your best friend?
Though he has all the qualities girls look for in a lover, I will not fall in love with him. He was the last person I thought will become my best friend.

6. Which is more blessed: loving someone or being loved by someone?
It depends on who I have in front. If it is my son the first is Ok. If it is my husband I prefer being loved.

7. How long do you intend to wait for someone you love?
That is something I have to put up with everyday. I have no choice but to wait till the one I love come back.

8. If the person you secretly like is attached, what will you do?
Let him go out of my mind for ever.

9. If you could root for one social cause, what would it be?
I dream of a world free of intoxicating drugs.

10. Do you lie?
I avoid it wherever possible, but some of my lies surprise my-self.

11. Where do you see yourself 10 years from now?
In a more dynamic world, not struggling as much as I do now. There is scope for a science fiction here.

12. What’s your fear?
I fear the law “Every action has an equal and opposite reaction” in life.

13. What kind of person do you think the person who tagged you is?
I like Ringchen. I know in first person her humility, intelligence, sense of humor and Captainship. HATS OFF TO MY DESKMATE.

14. Would you rather be single and rich or married and poor?
I would rather be married and poor.

15. If you fall in love with two people simultaneously who will you pick?
Take an unpredictable character of both. Then test it. Eg:I will fix a time period and who ever calls me first during that time will be my pick.

16. Would you give all in a relationship?
All except the secrets that are going to accompany me when I die.

17. Would you forgive and forget someone no matter how horrible a thing he has done?
If it is worth I will forgive. My memory is not all that good.

18. Do you prefer being single or in a relationship?
I love being in a relationship. There should be someone in front of whom you can be yourself.

19. Your all time favourite song. Only ONE. And why?
Its “ Devi…”from Njan gandharvan, a Malayalam movie. Not only because it has my name but also for its music. I become a Gandharva Veena when I hear it from my husband.

20. I TAG these 6 people because…
I don’t want to break the rule and I don’t know any one of them.
http://www.mumlog.com/
http://qnads.blogspot.com/
http://malaytraveller.blogspot.com/
http://thewadi.blogspot.com/
http://alharumi.wordpress.com/
http://jess-qatar.livejournal.com/

I think what matters at the end is , we learn from the answers and make an effort to change what we know is wrong within us.

Blogomania

2008-09-17T16:07:00.004+03:00

This is a normal day because I am out of head today.
But I desperately want to see a post on my blog. Regarding
topics there is a good traffic, but stuff absolutely nothing.

I doubt my own integrity now.This is a topic with some stuff.
I expect some more posts like this.This happens when you get a blogomania.

Chief cook

2008-09-15T16:44:00.004+03:00

I like cooking. Its interesting when combined with main constraints money,time and the tastes of those who have to put up with my cooking. The challenge is to have adequate supply of water, roughage, carbohydrates, protiens, minerals and vitamins in the menu.

My husband is a very good non-vegetarian and a connosieur of food. That way I don't have difficulty in deciding whether I am on or off the track.He is happy when he is a bit chubby. But I ensure that he remains slim and trim with my choices. He calls me a wonderful cook. [ Its a wonder if I cook a good dish :)]

My son likes less hot items. Surprisingly he likes whatever I offer, however bland it is. I don't know then why my mother pity him.

My friends considers me a geek. When asked to say the amount of rice I cook a day , I said around 200g instead of one glass or two cups. When I started saying 5g of tea powder for a cup of tea they all left me.

I am a vegetarian , but not a pure one now. I was encouraged to be a non-veg by parents. They thought ,then I won't have any difficulty in living any where in this world. But my taste buds didn't adjust to the rubbery feeling of meat .My nostrils were extra sensitive to accomodate the smell of fish. So in my childhood I clinged to all the reasons available to avoid non-veg food. That's how I became number one fan of Budha and Bapuji. At one point of time I refused even milk and eggs. But marriage and isolation from relatives adjusted the gap between me and non-veg food. Now, I cook non-veg and as the situation demands tastes too. Still I adore all the ingredients of Bapu's charater that made him a Mahatma.

Actually I am an average cook. When I shake hands with guests, whole body shakes on the thought of arranging good food. So I let them enjoy cooking in my kitchen. I don't experiment as I don't get any encouragements. The lesson I learned is not to get offended by critcis at the end.

Onam 2008

2008-09-12T14:59:00.005+03:00

This year I was thinking about the significance of Onam and Vishu. I thought day and night about whether to celebrate it or not. At the end I decided not to celebrate these because I am out of Kerala and my surroundings doesn’t call for a celebration as it is in my home country. So I restrained myself from looking in the calendar to find out when Onam is.

When Onam’s spirit heated up the air I broke out of my control and found out it was on the 12th of September. I thought anyway I won’t make a feast on Onam. When today dawned I found myself in the kitchen with whatever vegetables I bought on Uthradom (day before Onam). Suddenly there was sambar, Aviyal, Payasom and pappadoms on the table. Its hard to get mutta rice in Qatar now but we got mutta rice from our neighbor who had been to Kerala recently.

I usually make 15 to 20 items and invite at least a friend on this day even if it was a working day for my husband . Though it thoroughly exhausted me I couldn’t think of sharing the credit with anyone else. I like self praising very much ,so I say , the feasts were all very nice. :) This year some of our friends are fasting due to ramzan. Some are not celebrating due to personal reasons. I found all the food items over priced. Some items are hardly available. So I made this a pocket safe Onam with no Uthradapachil (last hustle bustle for onam) .

ONASADHYA 2008

I realize its difficult to forget things we used to do in our childhood. The logic and facts will not weaken our bonds with them.

POOKALAM 2008

One day when I was very young, I was very amused to see a pookalam ( rangoli with flowers) infront of our house. Then my mother told it was Atham and we have to arrange flowers like this till Thiruvonam. That is, for the next 9 days. Then I learned about Onam . Since then I actively participated in making pookalams whenever I got a chance. We had exams during Onam season, but it never interfered with the spirit of Onam. We got new dresses , and swings in the compound. What I looked forward was a family get together. While I enjoyed the company of my cousins , my dad and uncles enjoyed playing cards and a glass or two of hot drinks and my mother enjoyed displaying her cooking skills along with aunts. My grand parents saw that we all had a great time while they also had it. The evenings were miserable because everyone had to part and my sorrow knew no bounds.

We used to have fabulous feasts from then for next three or four days. I didn’t have a liking for this which usually resulted in me having an umbrella stomach ( this is purely a Malayalam usage translated to English :) . I do appreciate the efforts of the people behind it. The only days I found all the members of the family, irrespective of gender and age in the kitchen fell in this season.

Now its my turn to see my family happy on an Onam day. I turned on a TV and searched for a Malayalam channel and gave the remote to my husband. I unlocked the kids channels for my son on another TV. You know what am I doing now. Our house is filled with hilarious laughs and sighs of satisfaction. :)

PS:Photos courtesy to sis in laws.

A Tribute to My Libraries

2008-09-06T16:59:00.007+03:00

I was once a voracious reader . When I was very young I used to bug my dad, asking him to read stories out of books. He used to do it very nicely making it interesting for me by giving apt vocal effects. The first book I read myself was Ramayana depicted through pictures when I was as young as 6 years old. It took me a day to complete it. That gave me confidence to read any big book. Since then I am a passionate and whole hearted reader and remained irrevocaby bonded to libraries.

At home we had a nice collection of children’s books along with a lot of other categories. My two brothers together managed a small library. We had a catalogue, members register book and even a librarian.Still we have all the books that mesmerized our childhood in tact, but no librarian , library and register book. The library had evocative talents, ebullient fabulism and logical deductions of many authors and delighted me and provided countless rewarding rereads at all age. It ranks, therefore, as one of the greatest disappointments of my adult life to discover, on returning to the book tomes that line the walls of one of the bed rooms, that they have become, in the cruelly intervening years, just a museum of innocence neglected by all.What can we do when mueseums starts decaying? Children from the village and my cousins used to borrow books from us. At a certain stage of development, you ask for nothing more than a satisfying story and an unbroken contract of delivery from your authors.We have collected and binded in series a lot of children's magazines like poomabatta, eurka, balarama etc and other bi-monthly, monthly and weekly magazines.Most in demand was a collection of Mahabharatha Amarchitra katha.We took 10 volumes each and binded the whole series to make 4 books.Only we have books which shows our interests, artistic talents and a collection of stories by the children of Kallamkunnu compiled in the form of hand written magazines.

My brother Ck, was once the librarian of Kallamkunnu vayanasala ( Library). His efforts did help it to prosper and also us in reading field. It had a good collection of books by Malayalam authors both old and new.

I experience a dearth of words to express my gratitude to AG’s office library. I remember the days I eagerly waited for my mother, to devour the books she brought from there. Earlier I used to read whatever she brought. But as I developed , she brought the books I demanded. The library has a good collection of fiction books both in Malayalam and English. I used to get popular magazines as well. Anyway I limited my interests to these that time. Though she showed hesitation,when I asked for Jacky Collin's books , she brought them too.

After studies I went and joind Thrissur public library to declare my independence. But that bond lasted only till my marriage.That was my last library memebership. Hora Sasthram by Varahamihiran and Natya sasthram by Bharata Muni are some gems I got from there.

Some of the valuable books I read were borrowed from friends and relatives. My accademic excellence at various ages and levels helped me in gaining books like Thathwamasi, a book by Vivekananda, My experements with Truth and Glimpses of world history.

I remember the book fests that used to be held in JNV every year. Those days any one can go and sit any where in the exhibition hall with books of one's choice.JNV Libray was only developing when I joined ,but I had enough to feed myself till I left. I spent most of my time with pico classics.

My high school had a library ,but was not a popular one. Since no one bothered to go there and take books teacher's used to distribute the books once or twice in class to the needy.I got a treasure from there.It is Oru Desathinte katha by SK Pottakadu.

St'Mary's library had a good collection of books.I heard about Mills and boons from there, but never got a book from there because they used to be the staple diet of many others. I used to be moody quiet frequently in the hostel. The homourous novels I got from the library helped me erase those feelings.

REC LH had a library of fictions. The main library had a good collection of technical books and magazines. I lament the four years wasted with out using it efficiently.

When I was financially dependent, I was afraid to buy fiction novels, with all these available sources.Now that I can, the time stealer information monster comes in my way.Deep inside I feel, if I do, it will be only in the name of my son. Anyway these are just my first thoughts. :)

I was never a serious reader. But now I am one and I neither have time nor books to lay my hands on, to jot down punches and write a review.But,still I dream of refining the prosaic ore inside to literary gold. If its up to be, its up to me. I fear the obvious failure if I do things half heartedly. I won't regret if I get marooned or jailed in a cell or prescribed to take complete rest but, I should have an access to world's largest library,internet.

MOHANLAL ROUND ABOUT

2008-09-01T14:49:00.004+03:00

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This is the famous SLOPE round about of Doha. It is also known as Mohanlal Round about. Wherever we (Mallus) go, you will be there Laletta.

When You Ask the Age of Ladies

2008-08-31T13:20:00.006+03:00

L1: How old are you?
L2: It will take a long time for me to catch up with you.
L1: Oh..,Do you know I don't even have an ID card.
L2: I am doubtful now. Tell me what is good for my lunch, Cerelac or Babyvita ?
L3: I just got photographed by an ultra sound scanner.

A variation from what I heard.

Amazing

2008-08-23T09:58:00.003+03:00

I remember a Pak when the sports stars are busy pushing the limits of endurance. My friend was changing house in Saudi. His new flat was in the 4th floor of a building with no lift. He hired the Pak for getting his furniture in place. The Pak took a 1000l fridge on his back and told my friend,
“Give me the gas cylinder to balance this.”
He took it coolly and set off!

Summer in Qatar

2008-08-18T08:38:00.003+03:00

Some companies like Shell in Ras Laffan chose to close site works due to heat stress yesterday after noon while majority continued with their work. The temperature would have risen beyond 50 degree Celsius. This year from the beginning of summer season, I heard from many about the same temperature, but no news about sites being closed. After a few more days the heat will get reduced considerably. Here summer effects from June to August. In official reports the maximum temperature always remained a few degrees less than 50°C.The companies in this area are unaware of the contribution they are making to the future survival of human beings. If an uncontrollable heat wave breaks out on earth killing humanity definitely some trained by them are going to survive on earth.Here are also some companies like Lighton who works at night during summer. I wish the authorities follow their example.The main product of Ras Laffan is natural gas. I can only respect the souls who make my life easy on turning the LPG cylinder on.

National Anthems

2008-08-16T09:28:00.003+03:00

These are a handful of anthems that stand out in the olympics among 205 anthems according to a study by Alex Marshall of Gulf Times.

Uruguay: National anthem
One of the most euphoric pieces of
classical music I’ve ever heard. Banks of
trumpets play crescendos to false
endings – for five minutes. But somehow
it works.
Bangladesh: My Golden Bengal
A wonderful anthem that sounds like it
was written for a stroll along the Seine. It
really needs Jacques Brel. Which is
probably not what the Bangladeshi
composer had in mind.
Tajikistan: National anthem
Written when the country was part of
the USSR, it sounds like the music that
plays in James Bond films when a Russian
spy is about to strike Bond. It doesn’t try
to soar, but frighten, and it’s all the better
for it.
Mauritania: National anthem
A trip into the heart of the souq, albeit
a menacing one.The melody is so unusual
that most Mauritanian’s can’t sing along
to it, so pretend it doesn’t have any
words.
Dominica: Isle of Beauty, Isle of
Splendour
A simple, spiralling melody stuck on
repeat for 47 seconds, but there’s such
movement and elegance to it. Don’t
confuse with the Dominican Republic’s,
which is wretched.
US Virgin Isles: Virgin Islands
March
It’s Mary Poppins! One of the few
anthems to literally pull out all the bells
and whistles.This should be a soundtrack
to a kid’s film.
Senegal: Strum Your Koras, Strike
Your Balafons
How can an anthem that name checks
two local instruments in its title – a harp
and a xylophone – be any less than
brilliant? It’s really two tunes – the first
twinkles, the second strolls. But both are
amazing.
Nigeria: Arise O Compatriots,
Nigeria’s Call Obey
Written in 1978 by the Nigerian Police
Band, this should be an awful march.
Fortunately it features relentless afrobeat
percussion, which makes any tune
outstanding.
Nepal: Hundreds of Flowers
Adopted last year, when Nepal’s House
of Representatives threw out the old,
Western-style anthem. This folk melody
on strings and hand drums sounds like
slowed-down bhangra. Shame it’s
probably unplayable by brass, so unlikely
to be heard outside Nepal.
Japan: May Your Reign Last Forever
Solemn. So much so, it’ll have you
thinking of everyone you’ve lost for its
duration. Rarely does an anthem carry
such weight. – Guardian News &
Media

Is it time Indians revise the national anthem? We have talented writers as well as music directors.

God

2008-08-04T07:29:00.001+03:00

Undivided and equally present in all individual beings and has an imperishable existance.

From Gods Own Country

2008-07-20T17:56:00.005+03:00

This is my birth place in monsoon season. In summer it becomes almost a desert. But it really is a very good place to settle down for nature lovers.

Thrissur,Nadvaramba,Home

The air is so fresh. The greenery and trees around will sure have an influence on your temper. It cools you and your soul.

You will love this place if you know to live along with insects, snakes and some domestic animals. There are all sorts of insects you can expect form a tropic region. Deadly snakes often comes in to houses and premises. Most houses here have domestic animals. Sometimes they wanders to neighbouing houses.

The best season is during Onam ,that is from August to October. All flowering plants will do their best to decorate the mother nature.

This year the climate was unpredictable. Though it affected the farmers it was a blessing for us. There wasn't any need to water plants. We had enough water to survive summer.

Honey, I Love the Way You Annoy Me.

2008-07-13T08:12:00.002+03:00

Husband: I told you I will do it, then what is the problem? (Fuming)
Wife :Why are you being diplomatic with me? (Frowning)
Husband: What should have I said then?
Wife :”Ok. Shall I proceed?”
Husband: Honey, I Love the Way You Annoy Me. You can do that at any time.

Videos Recommended for kids

2008-07-09T08:48:00.008+03:00

This is Barney. I watched Barney's "Rhyme Time Rhythm". It is a collection of nursery rhymes. My son like it very much.

Wiggles show how to dance to simple songs.

I watched "It's Great to be an Engine". It's about a tank engine called Thomas. He teaches some principles of life through short stories. Again a favorite of my son.

I watched "Cat in the Hat". I didn't like it very much. But it keeps my son glued to TV for an hour or two. It's about a girl and boy who got bored of sitting idle at home due to all the restrictions imposed by their mother .But when their mother was out they enjoyed the day with a CAT in the HAT.

Tom and Jerry, Scooby Doo, Mowgli and Manjadi are some cartoons that keep my 3 year old busy watching TV. He didn't have any interest till he was 2 years old.Its Barney who changed his life.

Disnep Classics like Alice in Wonderland, Cindrella, Snow White, Peter Pan, Finding Nemo, The cars, Bambi, Pinochio,Winnie the Pooh etc are also in his likes.

Mowgli

2008-07-06T13:51:00.005+03:00

Jungle Book is a great piece of work by Rudyard Kipling. It is one of the best in the world. One of the animation is as exciting as the book. In that the movements of animals are exactly same as the original animals. The facial expressions are also taken care of.It has the potential to remain popular as long as the world exists.I made a play list in youtube. It is not here. I got it with the search words Shonen Mowgli. It is no longer there. If you make one, you must save and download it. This is a lesson I learned.

It took a long time for me to create this play list. I wonder how much time the artists behind this would have spent in compiling this great piece of work. Time is more valuable than money. No wonder art pieces get auctioned for a huge amount.

Here I am

2008-07-02T16:40:00.008+03:00

I was born in Thrissur. Up to 5 years I lived in houses rented in the suburbs of Thrissur with my parents and two big brothers. My parents worked in the AG's office in Thrissur. So when we were young they chose to live near their office.

In 1985 my family moved to Nadvaramba. I had schooling in GMHS Nadavaramba. So did most of my family members like my father, his siblings, their children and my brothers. After completing 5th standard I left the school.

I went to a special school, JNV Mayannur. The specialty of the school was Guru Kula method of teaching. Teachers and students live together all the time. When I was there I didn't like it as much as I do now. I hated getting up at 5am and going for PT. Then all of us had to get ready in 30 minutes time and attend the assembly. The number of bathrooms was limited. Girls had a tough time comparatively. The principal sometimes gave long speeches till someone fainted. We had a dhobi who never came on time and most of the time I was among the messy children in assembly. I hated the afternoon study times because I hardly could keep my eyes open then. During evening study time also most of us dozed except during monthly tests and terminal examinations.

Though we liked assignments and projects most of the time we won't get the required materials and we often ends up in hating them. I was among those who got selected to a JNV in Rajasthan. Go there or leave the school were the only choices allowed.So I left the school when I was in 9th.

Students were responsible for keeping the premises clean and tidy. We used to do it in groups taking turns. We had PT in the evenings also. But I used to like it. Finish it some how and then everyone can go for games.

Now when I reflect on my JNV Mayannur I thank the principal and other teachers. I will not forget the affection and love shown towards me. I remember and thank all the helpers in mess and school. I thank PT sir for waking me early and the PT he gave, because now days I wish for some one like him to keep me fit. The classes under mango trees, several extra curricular activities, several endeavors for the progress of the school, playing and bathing in the river Bharathapuzha, picnics to thiruvillamala by walk ,getting music lessons in mess hall, freedom we enjoyed during onam,local outings during class hours etc are some of the pictures that are clear and vivid in my memory.

I was in the third batch .Since the students were less in number we used to get the attention of teachers lavishly. I am proud of being a product of JNV mayannur.

I went back to GMHS Nadavaramba to complete 9th and 10th. I got an admission for pre- degree 1st group in ST. Mary's Collage Thrissur. Again I spent 2 years in hostel which helped me in getting coaching classes from PC Thomas sir.

The next four years are the ones I spent in REC Calicut, now known as NIT Calicut. I was there from 1997 to 2001.

I also take pride in studying in GMHS Nadavaramba,St. Mary's collage Thrissur and REC Calicut. But I don't want to make this post too long by going in to those details now.

Banglore, Jeddah and Dubai are cities in which I lived later.
In between there is Ranibennur , a small town where I spent 6 months.

Now I am in Al Khor a small town in Qatar. I manage the life of a man in my life.

Everywhere I lived I got some nick names. Malu, Ammalu, Sree, Sreept, Sreekutty, Sreedevi, Sreedevi PT, Rose milk ,Siemens Devi ,Devi and Mrs. Deepak are my names. Juemshuve is a very special name given to me by my friend Flanow. That's her nick name.

By now I hope nobody is going to miss me on a web search.

Acronyms and Initialisms

2008-06-29T13:19:00.003+03:00

This is an article I spotted in Gulf Times. I was not familiar with these acronyms except for a few like NOPE, and BIMBO. I used them without knowing that they had an expansion. Anyway I am going to use them extensively.

IT was revealed this month that North Carolina’s Division of Motor Vehicles has offered to replace about 10,000 license plates that include “WTF,” because that’s
a popular text-messaging term for “What the ...”(well, you know). Here are some
acronyms and initialisms you might not know:

1.) WWILF stands for “What was I looking for?” It’s not the queen’s English, but it is the basis for a British slang word, “wilfing,” which means aimless Internet searching,especially at work.

2) DFAC is a “dining facility” in the military. It’s pronounced dee-fak. If you call
it a “chow hall” or “mess hall,”you’re old school. Another military term is TRATS, for tin-tray rations that the Army sometimes uses in the field.

3) OTM is used by US border control officials for “other than Mexican.”

4) KGOY means “kids getting older younger.” This is used by both social scientists
and toymakers to describe the perception that children are embracing more mature
interests earlier, which is bad news for dollmakers, among others.

5) BSOs are “bright, shiny objects” – anything new and intriguing, especially in
technology. The acronym is often used negatively, with the suggestion that BSOs distract a person from what is truly important.

6) Get Smart, the classic television series from the ‘60s that inspired the Steve Carell movie last week, has two fake acronyms: The good-guy spy agency, CONTROL, and the evil agency, KAOS, appear to be acronyms but don’t stand for anything.

7) EGR is a Christian term for a sinful or difficult person.It stands for “extra grace required.”

8) You’ve heard of NIMBYs (“not in my backyard”). Well,NOTEs go step beyond: “not
over there either.” There’s also NOPE (“not on planet Earth”)and LULU (“locally unwanted land use”).

9) An anachronym is a word that started out as an acronym but no longer is thought of that way. Examples include laser (light amplification by stimulated emission of
radiation) and scuba (selfcontained underwater breathing apparatus).

10) There’s also the opposite – a backronym, a word that didn’t start out as an acronym but was given such a meaning on the back end. Wiki, the word for media created and edited by users, comes from a Hawaiian word for quick, but some people have alleged that it stands for “what I know is.” Another example is bimbo,
which most likely comes from the Italian word for baby but has been turned into a
backronym: “body impressive, brain optional".

Had I missed this article ,I am sure one day I will be wondering about what people are talking.

* I knew LASER and its expansion.

Bill Gates

2008-06-26T10:38:00.003+03:00

Bill Gates will end his full time job tomorrow, giving up his full
time role at Microsoft and his title as executive chairman.

George F Colony, the founder and chief executive of
research company Forrester, said love him or hate
him, the tech world would not have been the same
without Gates. He credits the software magnate not
only with realising the potential of PCs, but also
with realising that monopolistic software would
greatly enhance that power by setting de facto
standards.
“Bill had the vision to see this future and he
possessed the competitive drive to force his
technologies into monopoly positions in the
marketplace,” Colony said. “He has not been an
innovator in technology – in polite circles we would
call him derivative, in less gentile terms we would
call him a plagiarist. Gates has been a business
innovator, not a technology innovator.”

There is a cliche we used in our collage regarding him.It is "Don't teach Bill Gates Windows".It means understand the potential of a person before talking to him.He topped the list of billionairs for many consecutive years.

Wuthering Heights

2008-06-19T10:38:00.006+03:00

Wuthering Heights is the only novel by Emily Bronte.Its about how the passionate ,yet thwarted love between Catherine and Heathcliff destroys both and many around them.I liked the following works inspired by the novel.

Kate Bush | Wuthering Heights lyrics

About Me

2008-06-10T14:43:00.002+03:00

This is what Linda Goodman says about a Taurus Woman. In my case it is true to 95% .It is 100% true regarding friendship, honesty,loyalty and making me furious.

An Accident I was Part of

2008-05-15T12:03:00.000+03:00

I was traveling from my home in Nadavaramba to Kodungallur. I caught a limited stop bus.

I was in the long seat near driver. There was a boy in front of me. He was around 8 years old. There were two more travelers in that seat. As the bus was taking a sharp turn I heard a big bang sound. The bus came to a sudden stop. Suddenly passengers fell down in the bus. The front glass of the bus broke and spread everywhere. Something like a bag fell on my right shoulder blade. I saw the driver’s seat of another bus very close to ours. The driver’s legs got jammed.

I felt a shake in my body. I wasn’t displaced from my seat. Everyone was getting down the bus. A man came to the driver and told “Da -----------, Why were you in a hurry?” The driver was suffering from pain. I was the last to get down the bus. Till then no one came to rescue the driver.

When I got down the conductor and some others went to the driver and took him out of the bus. He had difficulty in moving one leg. I looked at the co-passengers. Some had swollen eye. Some people had injuries near ears, mouth and forehead. One asked me “Do I have any problem?” I said “There is a deep scar between your brows. Do I have any injuries?” She said “None visible.” Anyway I confirmed it with a mirror in my bag.

I found that both the buses were on the wrong track. I took a photograph.No one showed the sign of great pain. So I understood the injuries were minor. The local people immediately came. In two minutes police came. They diverted traffic. Stopped all the vehicles and made arrangements to take all those injured to the nearest hospital.

I went to the next bus stop. There were some people waiting for bus. I told them what had happened. Two working ladies were getting late for office. They decided to take an auto and proceed. I joined them.

When I returned home in the noon, the buses were not there. I told the story to my mother and dad. They were shocked. I had a slight swelling on shoulders then. All thanked God for saving me from harder injuries. But in the night I had difficulty in lying on bed. With every move my neck ached.

Next day I saw a picture of the accident in the local news column of Malayalamanorama.
The buses were Kozhappil and Priyadarshini. I was in problematic Kozhappil.

PRIYADARSHINI'S BACK AND KOZHAPPIL'S FRONT VIEW

The swelling and pain went away in 3 or 4 days. But the memories won’t go off for a life time. I fear the sound of a running bus which starts slowly and then gradually attains a violent speed. I have butterflies in my stomach whenever a bus takes a bend in the road especially if I am in the long seat. Still I don’t hesitate to travel in limited stop busses!

Bharani

2008-05-14T09:49:00.003+03:00

It was a Revathy day . That is two days before famous Bharani festival of Kodungallur. I decided to go to Kodungallur in spite of warnings from my relatives. They told me people come there and sing in bad language about the Goddess. They enjoy harassing ladies by bad words.

Anyway I had business in Kodungallur. I wanted to see Komarams whom I have seen only in movies and Television. My desire to get a feel of Bharani also drew me to this trip.

I took a bus. It was not crowded. I got a seat to sit. From 2km ahead of my destination (Vadakkenada ) I saw buses and traveler vans parked on each side of the road. I got down at my destination. I saw a high class Hindu crowd which was evident from their looks.
Then saw troops of people arriving. Some ladies wore red dress ,Aramani,Chilambu and sword. Men had Bamboo sticks in their hands. They were singing and praising the Goddess. I didn’t hear that. All I could catch was

Thanaro thannaro thaka thanaro thannaro.

A LADY KOMARAM WITH SWORD.

THEY CAME FOR BHARANI

CHILAMBU IS USED TO ADORN THE LEG

ARAMANI IS WORN AROUND THE WASTE

The high amount of noise pollution did affect me whenever I came out of the A/c rooms. It was partially due to traffic block. I finished my business before noon and went to the bus stand to catch another bus to home. On the way I saw a fight between a bus conductor and a devotee. They stopped quickly as there was a spectator who was a police man. I saw some drunken men dancing freely.

TRAFFIC ON REVATHY DAY MORNING

I took some photos with my mobile. I couldn’t get the one I intended. That was one with a lady komaram. I avoided that thinking that my mobile was brand new N95. If ever someone got angry anything could have happened. So I took most of the photos with my heart.

That day I reached home with out much harm and as innocent as I was that morning. In the evening my father in law took me n sis in law towards south. He took us to Gauri Sankar hospital to see a patient who was our relative. He was the one who didn’t want me to go in the morning! But this time we were in the comfort of Zen with cooling paper sticker on all the possible glasses so that none could see us.

This trip gave me actual feel of Bharani. It took 1 hr to cover 5 minute distance. Lots of people were coming to Kodungallur. In most of the small streets we found groups of devotees. Some were drinking. Their bar counter being the walls of posh houses. I heard some very bad words. You must be wondering what can that be. Exactly this curiosity made me see Bharani.

My husband’s star is Bharani. Those who haven’t seen Bharani just look at me. Both look alike. Bharani became our topic of conversation once. Then I understood my knowledge of Bharanipattu was nothing compared to what he told me.

Kavutheendal function is on Aswathy day. For that people come there on Revathy day. After that function those who came from North Kerala goes back. All of them and local people celebrate Bharani on Bharani day. There won’t be rush on Bharani day. It’s actually a calm and quite day. So Bharani and Aswathy days are local holidays.

My trip was not a waste. I learned this line which I think is going to be very useful in helpless situations.

Thala thanne poyalum theri thanne padanam
Athukondu Devikku Kopamilla.
(Even if you lose head be foul mouthed
Devi won't get offended.)

I also understood why people tell ladies to stay away from Kodungallur during Bharani days.

Ideas gleened in retro surrealism

2008-01-21T10:49:00.002+03:00

Om Shanti Om

The music is very good. Dance is good.Sharukh proves he is a versatile dancer. There are touches of classic,rock n roll,balle,disco and kawali in dancing.Of course he is a great actor.

He scores.The difference between Makhija and Kapoor are brought out very nicely.He is excellent.

What I didn’t like is the ghost part. It would have been better if the concept of dual personality was used . I liked it till the death of Mukesh. Shanti gives a smile to Om and goes back with a wet eye. At that time Sandy comes.Om looks at Sandy and then at Shanti.Original ghost came!

I would suggest an ending like this.

The latern falls on Mukesh. Mukesh gives a big cry . He tries to move .This attracts Om’s attention. He goes near and checks what happens.Mukesh takes his last breath. He then turns and looks at Shanti. She is not there now. He hears Pappu master,
Pappu : Udo Sandy….Pani lao…

Om couldn't see Sandy.He goes upstairs.

Scene: Sandy lies unconscious on the staircase ,where it bends.Pappu patting her head . PA going up the stairs to bring water. Om goes there and kisses her on the forehead.

Sandy opens her eyes.
Sandy: Om.
Om:Shanti(Hugs her)
Sandy:Om(Hugs him)

Music On: Ankon mein theri ...

The End

The punarjanam of Shanti will give the audience some shanti.